I recently gave birth, and now have a three month old baby. Before my pregnancy, I used to check my cervix to see when I was ovulating, as in chart my cervical positions. My cervix would always get low, soft and open and I would start my period within 2 days of that happening.

After giving birth, my spouse and I are back to having intercourse, we are using protection and checking my cervix (just in case) and for the past 7 days it has been low, soft and open. Why is this so?

Dr Ann: I assume you had a vaginal delivery during which the cervix dilated fully and even though you are three months post natal- the cervix may not be entirely in its prepregnant state and may never be totally like it was before. It is usually slightly softer and more open (externally only) so monitor your cervix for a few months to understand its new pattern before you use it as a birth control method.

There are other methods which you may consider for monitoring your cervix namely the use of ovulation test kits.

Answered by

Dr Ann, Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist at Women & Fetal Centre,

A member of Pacific Healthcare

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