15 cooperative play activities that build teamwork

Why cooperative games matter

Most children's games have a winner, and competitive play has its own value. What it does not teach is the skill most needed in a classroom and every workplace afterwards: getting a shared job done with people who are not you.

Cooperative games remove the winner and leave the negotiation. Children have to explain, listen, adjust and wait — and because nobody is being beaten, the child who usually loses stays in the game rather than walking off.

They are particularly useful for a child who is bossy, one who gives up when losing, or one who hangs back in groups.

For three to six year olds (1-6)

1. Balloon in the air. Keep one balloon off the floor between everyone, counting taps together. Teaches: shared goal, taking turns without a rule.

2. The blanket ride. Two or three children pull another sitting on a bedsheet across a smooth floor, taking turns. Teaches: coordinating effort, and looking after the person being pulled.

3. Build one tower. Everyone adds one block at a time to a single tower rather than building separately. Teaches: joint outcome, patience.

4. Cross the river. Two cushions per group, everyone must cross the room without touching the floor by passing the cushions forward. Teaches: planning together, helping the slowest.

5. The parachute or bedsheet game. Everyone holds the edge of a sheet and keeps a ball rolling around the rim without it falling off. Teaches: reading others' movements.

6. Group story. One sentence each, going round, building a story. Teaches: listening, building on someone else's idea rather than replacing it.

For seven to ten year olds (7-12)

7. The human knot. Everyone holds two different hands across a circle and untangles without letting go. Teaches: patience, giving and taking instructions.

8. Beat the clock tidy-up. The room must be tidy in ten minutes — as a group against the timer, not against each other. Teaches: dividing work, and that the finish is shared.

9. Silent line-up. Arrange yourselves by birthday or height without speaking. Teaches: non-verbal communication, and including the quiet child.

10. Build a bridge. Newspaper and tape, one bridge, must hold a book. Teaches: negotiating a design, testing and revising.

11. Pass the story ball. A ball is passed and whoever holds it continues the story, but must use what the last person said. Teaches: listening properly rather than waiting to speak.

12. Cooperative treasure hunt. Clues split so no one child holds them all; the box only opens when everyone contributes. Teaches: interdependence, deliberately engineered.

For ten and above (13-15)

13. The group cook. One dish, roles assigned by the children themselves, adults only for the stove. Teaches: planning, sequencing, and dealing with the person who does nothing.

14. Escape-room at home. A set of puzzles across rooms with a time limit, solvable only by splitting up and reporting back. Teaches: delegation and trusting someone else's finding.

15. Plan the family outing. Give them a budget, a time limit and the whole decision — destination, transport, food. Teaches: real negotiation with real stakes, and it is usually the one they remember.

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