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Vastu for a child's roomAlmost every Indian family building or arranging a child's room hears vastu advice, usually from someone certain about it. Here is what the tradition actually says — and what changes a child's sleep and concentration whichever direction the bed faces.Bathing a babyA baby's bath is the household's favourite ritual and a first-time parent's most nervous ten minutes. Here is the safe routine, the honest frequency answer, and the rules that never bend.
Baby CareBathing a babyA baby's bath is the household's favourite ritual and a first-time parent's most nervous ten minutes. Here is the safe routine, the honest frequency answer, and the rules that never bend.1
Baby DevelopmentCan you increase your child's height? What works and what is soldHeight is mostly inherited, and the part that is not is decided by nutrition, sleep and health — none of which comes in a bottle.2
Baby NamesShravana nakshatraShravana nakshatra occupies Makara 10°00' to 23°20' of the zodiac. Ruling planet the Moon, deity Vishnu, symbol three footsteps. This page gives the rashi of each of the four padas and which syllable the name traditionally starts with.3
Big Kids & TeensWhen will my son reach puberty? The order, the timing and the awkward partsBoys start puberty about two years after girls and finish later, which is why a Class 7 classroom looks the way it does. Here is the order, and what to tell him before it starts.4
Birth & PostpartumMaking a birth plan that works in an Indian hospitalA laminated ten-page birth plan will not get you far in a busy Indian labour ward. A short conversation at 34 weeks will.5
Education & LearningSupporting a neurodivergent child at school in IndiaIndian law gives these children more rights than most schools admit to. Knowing the specific words to use changes what you get.6Parenting articles
Baby Care
Newborn bodiesSeveral things that look alarming in a newborn are caused by the mother's hormones and pass within weeks. A small number are not, and those have a clear list.- Newborn poop and nappiesBlood in a nappy, black stool after the first days, or pale chalky stool all need a doctor. Everything else on this page is almost always ordinary.
Newborn skin careNewborn skin arrives wrinkled, peeling and blotchy, then settles. Here is what each of those looks like, the two-minute care routine that is all it needs, and the customs to retire.- Newborn sleepA newborn sleeps sixteen hours a day and somehow nobody in the house sleeps at all. Here is what is normal, the short list of safety rules that are non-negotiable, and how the first three months actually get survived.
Baby Development
- Can you increase your child's height? What works and what is soldHeight is mostly inherited, and the part that is not is decided by nutrition, sleep and health — none of which comes in a bottle.
- First shoesThe best shoe for a new walker is no shoe. Once they are outdoors, a small number of things matter and most of what is sold does not.
- Head banging, thumb sucking and eight other things babies do that look alarmingAlmost every one of these gets searched at midnight by a frightened parent, and almost every one has the same answer: common, self-soothing, and outgrown. Here is each of them, and the small number of signs that change the answer.
Baby Names
Baby names that mean protector16 names whose meaning is protector — 14 for boys, 3 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.- Baby names that mean pure32 names whose meaning is pure — 14 for boys, 18 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.
Baby names that mean queen19 names whose meaning is queen — 0 for boys, 19 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.- Baby names that mean rain13 names whose meaning is rain — 3 for boys, 10 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.
Baby names that mean respect13 names whose meaning is respect — 7 for boys, 6 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.- Baby names that mean righteous21 names whose meaning is righteous — 10 for boys, 11 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.
Baby names that mean river30 names whose meaning is river — 1 for boys, 30 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.- Baby names that mean ruler18 names whose meaning is ruler — 16 for boys, 2 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.
Baby names that mean sage14 names whose meaning is sage — 11 for boys, 3 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.- Baby names that mean sky13 names whose meaning is sky — 9 for boys, 4 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.
Baby names that mean song14 names whose meaning is song — 3 for boys, 11 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.- Baby names that mean soul12 names whose meaning is soul — 11 for boys, 1 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.
Baby names that mean star19 names whose meaning is star — 6 for boys, 13 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.- Baby names that mean strength23 names whose meaning is strength — 18 for boys, 5 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.
Baby names that mean success41 names whose meaning is success — 10 for boys, 32 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.- Baby names that mean sun61 names whose meaning is sun — 52 for boys, 11 for girls — each printed with the meaning our corpus records and the Devanagari spelling where we hold one.
Big Kids & Teens
- Helping a child recover from a bad exam resultResults day in India carries a weight it should not, and every year children are lost to it. What a parent says in the first hour matters more than anything that follows.
- Her first braThere is no age at which a girl needs a bra — there is a point at which she is more comfortable with one. Here is how to judge it, and how to buy without making it an ordeal.
- Phones, gaming and social mediaYou cannot supervise a teenager's phone the way you supervise a toddler's. What works is a small number of firm rules, an open conversation, and attention to sleep.
Birth & Postpartum
The first hour after birthThe hour after birth has more effect on feeding, bonding and the baby's stability than almost anything else that happens in hospital — and it is the easiest thing to lose in a busy ward.- The stages of labour, explained plainlyLabour is not one event but a sequence, and knowing the sequence removes most of the fear. Here is what happens, in what order, and roughly how long each part takes.
Where to deliverThe choice is not simply about money. What matters is whether the place can handle an emergency at 3 a.m. — and both systems have hospitals that can and cannot.
Education & Learning
20 reading games for a child who does not enjoy reading yetA child who says reading is boring is usually a child for whom reading is still hard work. These games take the effort down and the fun up.- 20 school interview questions for parentsNursery admission interviews are for the parents as much as the child. Here are the twenty questions that come up, what each is really checking, and how to answer them.
Building a reading habitReading for pleasure predicts school success better than almost anything else parents control — and it is built by reading aloud, not by insisting.
Family Life & Relationships
How partners can support each other after a miscarriageTwo people lost the same pregnancy and are grieving on different timetables, in different ways, usually without saying so. That gap is where the damage happens.- How to answer difficult questions after a pregnancy loss'How many children do you have?' is an ordinary question that becomes an impossible one. There is no correct answer, only the one that costs you least today.
How to explain a pregnancy loss to a childChildren know something has happened. What they invent to explain it is almost always worse than the truth, and often has themselves at the centre of it.- How to tell your mother-in-law to back offThe advice arrives daily, the baby is being fed things you said no to, and you are the one who will be called disrespectful. Here is how to hold a boundary and keep the relationship.
Feeding & Nutrition
Milk after the first birthdayMilk goes from being the whole meal to being one item on a plate — and most Indian toddlers are given far too much of it. Here is the right amount, the right container, and the powders you can skip.- Moving from a bottle to a sippy cup and straw cupMost Indian children stay on a bottle far longer than guidance suggests, and the night bottle is the one that does the damage.
Raising a vegetarian childMillions of Indian children grow up strong on vegetarian food. It works — provided four specific nutrients are deliberately planned rather than assumed.
Fertility
Trying to conceiveMost couples conceive within a year, and most of what is sold to speed it up does nothing. Here is what actually matters — timing, health, and knowing when a year is too long to wait.- Counting your days to avoid pregnancyThe safe-period method is the most used and least reliable contraception in India. Here is how the counting actually works — and how often it does not.
Cramps but no periodPeriod pain without a period is common and has a long list of explanations, most of them harmless and two of them emergencies. Here is how to tell them apart.
Home & Lifestyle
- Vastu for a child's roomAlmost every Indian family building or arranging a child's room hears vastu advice, usually from someone certain about it. Here is what the tradition actually says — and what changes a child's sleep and concentration whichever direction the bed faces.
- What to actually keep in the nappy bagThe bag everyone over-packs for a month and then under-packs forever. Here is the list that survives contact with an actual outing.
Winter with a babyIndian winters bring two opposite risks — an under-dressed baby in an unheated house, and an over-bundled one with a heater burning oxygen in a closed room. Here is the balance.
Mum Wellbeing
Sleep deprivationSleep deprivation is treated as a joke about new parenthood. It is a health problem with measurable effects — and the fixes are logistical rather than heroic.- The Indian postpartum dietPanjiri in Punjab, methi laddoo in Maharashtra, pathiya sappadu in Tamil Nadu. Much of it is genuinely good nutrition — and some of the rules attached to it are not.
The loneliness of new motherhood, and how to build a circleOne of the strangest parts of new motherhood is being never alone and profoundly lonely at the same time. It is extremely common, and it is fixable.
Parenting & Behaviour
Time-out, time-in or a calm-down cornerThree methods with similar names and different mechanisms. The one that works depends on whether the child needs a boundary or needs help calming down.- What to do when children swearThe first time it happens it is usually funny, and laughing is the one response guaranteed to produce it again.
What to do when your child is the one bullyingSomebody's child is doing it. The response that actually changes things starts with believing the report.
Play & Activities
How to choose toys that actually develop skillsThe best-evidenced toys are the boring-looking ones. A set of blocks does more for a child than almost anything with a battery in it.- Indoor games without screensSmall flat, no garden, monsoon outside, and a bored child. Here are the games that work — most of them using what is already in the kitchen.
Raksha Bandhan with young childrenRakhi is the festival small children can genuinely take part in — because the main activity is making something and tying it on someone.
Pregnancy
Medicines in pregnancyThe instinct to take nothing at all is as risky as taking anything at all — untreated fever, infection and chronic illness harm pregnancies too.- Mental health in pregnancyDepression and anxiety are at least as common during pregnancy as after it, and are asked about far less. Nobody screens for it at most Indian antenatal visits, which means it usually has to be raised by the woman herself.
Miscarriage and pregnancy lossOne in five known pregnancies ends in miscarriage, almost never because of anything the woman did. This is the article nobody wants to need, written plainly.- MiscarriageOne in five known pregnancies ends in miscarriage, almost always for reasons nobody could have prevented. Here is what happens, medically, and what needs urgent care.
Molar pregnancyA rare form of pregnancy loss where abnormal tissue grows instead of a baby. The treatment is straightforward; the follow-up is the part that must not be skipped.- Mood swings in the second trimesterCrying at an advertisement and raging at a spoon in the same hour is a recognised feature of pregnancy. Knowing where the line is between that and depression matters.
Morning sicknessNausea affects most pregnancies, peaks around week nine and usually fades by fourteen. Here is what genuinely helps — and the line where it stops being normal.- Planning another pregnancy after a stillbirthThere is no right time and no obligation. What there is: a set of questions worth answering before you try, and a level of care worth asking for when you do.
Pregnancy after 35The phrase 'advanced maternal age' is used from 35, which is alarming language for a fairly modest change in risk. Here is the honest version.- Pregnancy after miscarriageThe pregnancy after a loss is a different experience from the first one: less innocent, more anxious, and usually successful.
Toddler & Preschool
How parents can support toddler and preschool friendshipsFriendship at three does not look like friendship at eight. Knowing what it should look like stops parents solving problems that do not exist.- Moving from a cot to a toddler bedThe move is usually made too early, and almost always for the parents' reasons rather than the child's. Waiting costs nothing.
Screen time for under-fivesThe phone is the most effective babysitter ever invented, and the under-fives are exactly the age it costs the most. Here is the honest picture and a workable plan.
Tools
Vaccination trackerOne date of birth in — and '6 weeks' becomes a date on your calendar. Missed doses are flagged by name instead of scrolling silently past. A printable fridge chart is below.- Baby cost calculatorThree choices, then every rupee figure is an editable box — because we don't know what a delivery costs in your town, and won't pretend to. The pre-filled numbers are starting points, not research.
Baby Formula CalculatorEnter your baby's weight and number of formula feeds per day. This calculator estimates daily formula intake using approximately 150 ml/kg/day. It is for healthy, full-term babies who are growing appropriately, are older than one week and younger than six months, and receive only formula milk. For premature babies, babies with low weight or poor growth, or babies with medical conditions affecting feeding, please consult your pediatrician. Once your baby starts solid or semi-solid foods, use age-appropriate feeding guidance instead of this calculation.