
Panjiri in Punjab, methi laddoo in Maharashtra, pathiya sappadu in Tamil Nadu. Much of it is genuinely good nutrition — and some of the rules attached to it are not.
North India: panjiri and gond ke laddoo made with whole wheat, ghee, edible gum, nuts and jaggery — dense in calories, iron and calcium, which is exactly what a recovering mother needs. Ajwain water for digestion, and harira in the first days.
Maharashtra and Gujarat: methi laddoo, dink laddoo, alive laddoo made with garden cress seeds — genuinely iron-rich — and shatavari preparations.
Tamil Nadu and Kerala: pathiya sappadu, with garlic-heavy rasam, sesame oil, drumstick leaves, and kanji. Uluva kanji (fenugreek porridge) in Kerala.
Bengal and the east: gondhoraj and light fish preparations, ghee with rice, and shukto early on.
The common thread across all of them — ghee for energy, jaggery and sesame for iron and calcium, nuts and seeds for protein, warm soft food that is easy to digest — is sound. These traditions were built around a real nutritional need.
Extra energy, particularly when breastfeeding — several hundred additional calories a day, which is why the calorie-dense laddoo tradition makes sense.
Protein at every meal: dal, eggs, fish, chicken, paneer, curd. This is the most commonly short nutrient in Indian postpartum diets.
Iron, because most Indian women enter delivery anaemic and lose more blood in it. Continue iron and folic acid supplements as prescribed, usually for months after delivery, and eat iron foods with something rich in vitamin C.
Calcium and vitamin D: milk, curd, ragi, sesame, and supplements where prescribed.
Fluids: enough to keep urine pale. Thirst rises sharply while breastfeeding.
Fibre and water, because constipation after delivery — especially after a caesarean or stitches — is close to universal.
Being told to avoid all vegetables, all fruit, or all 'cold' foods for forty days. This strips out vitamin C, fibre and variety at the worst time, and there is no evidence behind it.
Extreme fluid restriction, still practised in some families to 'dry' the body. It worsens constipation and can reduce milk supply.
Cutting out all salt, or being fed only rice and ghee for weeks.
Being told not to eat until a particular hour, or only once a day. Small frequent meals suit a woman feeding a newborn far better.
And blaming the mother's food for every symptom in the baby. Colic, wind and fussing are rarely traced to what she ate; a genuine reaction to something in her diet, usually dairy, is possible but uncommon and worth diagnosing properly rather than assuming.
A sample day that fits both worlds: methi or gond laddoo with milk in the morning, eggs or dal with roti mid-morning, rice with dal, a vegetable and curd at lunch, nuts and fruit in the afternoon, khichdi or soft rice with fish or paneer at dinner, and a glass of milk at night.
Same-day: heavy bleeding soaking a pad an hour, fever, foul-smelling discharge, severe headache with visual changes, chest pain, breathlessness, calf pain or swelling, or a wound that is red, hot or leaking. Call 108 if you cannot travel.
See your doctor for: persistent dizziness or breathlessness, which usually means anaemia and needs a haemoglobin check; constipation that is not settling; and any advice to restrict food that is leaving you weak.
Also raise low mood, hopelessness or anxiety at the six-week check. Tele-MANAS on 14416 is free and answers round the clock.
This article is general information, not medical advice, and is no substitute for personal medical advice. For any decision about your or your child's health, please consult your doctor.
Q: Do I have to eat ghee and laddoo? — No, and they are useful if you like them: energy-dense food is genuinely helpful in the first weeks. Skip them if they do not suit you and get the calories elsewhere.
Q: Will spicy food upset the baby through milk? — Usually not. Indian babies are fed by mothers eating Indian food. Watch for a specific pattern rather than removing spice on principle.
Q: When can I start dieting? — Not in the early weeks, and especially not while establishing breastfeeding. Weight comes off gradually over months with normal eating.
Q: How long do I take iron tablets? — Usually for some months after delivery, as prescribed. Ask for a haemoglobin check rather than stopping on your own.
Published by: theAsianparent editorial team
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